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XXI — Much Better — I HAVE FREEDOM OF SPEECH — but Does She have The Right to Breathe?!
I HAVE FREEDOM OF SPEECH, but DOES SHE HAVE the RIGHT to BREATHE?!
The laws give me a lot of rights, but
- The impacts of how I use those rights
Can vary greatly
I can speak out for someone else
“You know, I think you hurt her feelings,
Though
You might have meant well in what you said”
and/or
“I think you girls really did a great job tonite!”
Spoken by a woman among other women
Might be totally fine
But
If I, a Man said those same words,
One or more of my friends
Might say:
“You have some nerve,
Calling us ‘girls’!”
(whether to my face,
Or -
Once I left the room)
I have a perfect right
To put some of my feelings out,
Even my truths
“He showed how deep
His heart is,
His empathy,
His Caring
Was Very Clear to me”