Wake Up Men!

I was a Clinic Escort at a Family Planning Associates Abortion Clinic in Chicago from June — September, 2022, when I moved to Richmond, California. It took me until August, 2023 (after a variety of efforts) to continue my Escort work, which is now for Planned Parenthood in Concord, California. I work regular shifts, consistently doing the work week-after-week.

For me, as a cis-hettish, white man, it is important that I’m in allyship. I want to support the important work of girls, women and trans people.

I’m bothered that more men don’t volunteer! Some of us are committed to coming to rallies. We are reticent to dig deeply into personal work with other men. We also don’t want to feel uncomfortable, and serious systemic change work is challenging.

In Chicago, the front door, was on the street. We had protesters who, without our visible presence, would block the front door, while also guilt tripping the women and girls. Many of those coming in looked exhausted (from a sleepless previous night) and scared.

Facing phony graphic images, and phonier purported caring and “support”, added to the challenges many young women faced.

Protesters, everywhere, speak of how they will financially help the women. I’d love to hear of the necessary $500,000-$1,000,000 contribution to raise an unwanted child. I’ve never heard a touching story anywhere of such a gift! I’ve heard much more of unrelated programs that help fund the education for students seeking an easier life than their parents have had.